About Paula
Paula Appleton is a counsellor with 14 years of practice in the United Kingdom. She works in an integrative way, drawing on several therapy styles to meet each person’s needs. She welcomes people who are dealing with anxiety and related worries.
Paula communicates in English and also uses American Sign Language for Deaf and hard-of-hearing clients. Paula frames sessions around what matters to the individual. She uses plain language and practical steps rather than jargon.
Background and approach
People often come to her for help with stress, low mood, grief, trauma and addictions as well as relationship and parenting concerns. Her approach mixes elements from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-based ideas. She also uses client-centred methods and techniques from Dialectical Behaviour Therapy when they suit the situation.
That mix is adapted to the person rather than applied the same way to everyone. Paula aims to make sessions predictable and focused. She will listen, help people name what matters to them and practise skills to manage difficult feelings.
The result is usually a clearer sense of next steps and ways to cope between sessions. She follows the standards of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and also holds NCPS. Paula offers a straightforward, person-focused way of working for those who want calm, practical support for life’s challenges.
How Paula’s therapeutic approaches translate online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify their values and take small committed steps toward them while learning to live with difficult feelings. It suits worries about anxiety, life changes and motivation. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and testing them with practical experiments and new skills to reduce distress and improve sleep and mood.Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Paula will discuss options and together decide which methods fit a person’s goals and preferences. That collaborative decision can change as progress is made or new issues arise.
Online therapy with Paula can be delivered by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Video sessions let people work face to face from wherever they are, phone sessions use less bandwidth and often suit a shorter check-in, live chat is useful for quick reflections, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These options give flexibility to fit around work, study or caring responsibilities while still accessing regular therapeutic support.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
- Experience
- 14 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, American Sign Language
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