About Rajbinder
Rajbinder "Raj" Kalirai is a counsellor who helps people manage stress and anxiety. She speaks English, Hindi, Punjabi and Urdu, and supports clients across the United Kingdom and internationally. Rajbinder has eight years of experience and holds BACP registration.
Rajbinder creates a calm, non-judgmental space where people can talk about difficult feelings. She encourages clear, manageable steps rather than overwhelming advice. Conversations focus on what matters most to each person and practical ways to cope day to day.
Background and approach
Her work draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy. These methods help people notice patterns, shift unhelpful thoughts and build healthier ways of relating to themselves and others. Rajbinder adapts techniques to each person’s needs and pace.
She has supported people with a wide range of concerns, including relationships, trauma and abuse, anger, depression, addiction, grief, self-esteem and parenting challenges. Additional focus areas include attachment issues, body image, codependency and coping with major life changes. Sessions can be held by video, phone, live chat or text messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
Rajbinder aims for practical, steady progress and works collaboratively to set goals and review what helps most.
Therapeutic approaches online and how they help
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice their thoughts and make space for values-driven action rather than getting stuck on worry. It can be useful for anxiety, stress and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and gives practical tools to change unhelpful patterns that feed low mood or anxiety. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at relationship patterns from early life and helps people build safer ways of connecting and managing closeness and separation. Rajbinder treats finding the right approach as a collaborative process. She will talk through goals, try methods that suit the person, and adjust the plan based on what works. This means sessions often blend techniques so the work fits each person’s needs and pace. Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet without the need to travel. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction when helpful, phone sessions work well for people with limited bandwidth, and live chat or text-based messaging can suit shorter check-ins or times when writing feels easier. These options help people fit therapy into work, family life or different time zones, while keeping the focus on steady progress and practical coping.Questions people ask
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 8 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, Hindi, Punjabi, Urdu
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