About Nicola
Nicola Barnard is a counsellor who uses practical, person-focused approaches to help people manage stress and anxiety. She keeps things straightforward and calm in sessions, helping clients talk through difficult thoughts and feelings. Nicola is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and brings four years of experience to her practice.
She helps with a wide range of concerns including relationship strain, grief and loss, low self-esteem, depression, motivation and confidence.
Background and approach
Nicola also supports people facing parenting stress, work-related pressures and the emotional impact of long-term health challenges. Her work includes supporting people who are neurodiverse and those coping with attachment or abandonment issues. Nicola draws on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based Therapy to tailor sessions to each person.
She creates a calm space where clients can explore values, set small goals and practice new ways of responding to worry. Sessions are practical and grounded in everyday life. Her style is warm and accepting, focusing on what the client wants to change.
She works at a steady pace so people can build confidence and notice small improvements over time. Nicola aims to make therapy a useful tool for coping with life changes and improving day-to-day wellbeing. People can expect clear, straightforward conversations, with strategies they can use between meetings.
Nicola supports clients to find manageable steps toward their goals and to build skills for handling stress and emotional setbacks.
Online approaches that help with anxiety and life change
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thinking and reconnect with personal values. It uses simple exercises to reduce avoidance and build a life that matters despite worry. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focuses on how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact. It offers practical techniques for easing anxiety, improving sleep and changing unhelpful routines.Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Nicola will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and will suggest ways forward together. That shared decision-making means approaches can be blended or adjusted as progress is made.
Online sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video calls suit deeper conversations and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a simpler check-in is needed. Live chat and messaging allow short, frequent contact and can help maintain momentum between meetings. These options aim to make therapy easier to fit into busy lives and to keep support consistent when routines change.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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