About Elena
Elena Lanza is a counsellor who combines warmth and practical methods to help people manage stress and anxiety. She works in a straightforward way, listening first and then offering tools tailored to each person. Elena uses plain language and gentle curiosity to help clients make sense of difficult feelings.
She draws on approaches such as attachment-based work, client-centred listening, cognitive behavioural ideas, and emotionally-focused techniques. Sessions can include talking, breath work and simple mindfulness exercises to reduce stress and improve sleep.
Background and approach
Elena also uses creative elements when useful, such as art-based activities, to help people access feelings that are hard to put into words. Her work includes supporting people dealing with grief, relationship challenges, trauma and abuse, addiction and ongoing health problems. She also brings experience with neurodiversity, including attention deficit hyperactivity differences and autism, and with issues linked to adoption and attachment.
Elena welcomes people from LGBTQIA+ backgrounds and those facing compassionate-care fatigue. Elena holds BACP registration with six years of practice experience in the United Kingdom. She offers sessions in English and Italian and accepts people living outside the UK.
Therapy is paced to each person's needs, with conversations aimed at clearer choices and calmer day-to-day living. Practical options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. To begin, a short matching questionnaire is completed and a session scheduled according to the therapist's availability.
Therapeutic approaches for online support
Elena commonly uses attachment-based work and cognitive behavioural techniques in online sessions. Attachment-based therapy looks at how early relationships shape current emotional patterns and aims to build safer, more trusting ways of relating. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) focuses on practical steps to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, which can reduce anxiety and improve sleep and mood.Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Elena will talk with each person about their goals and preferences, and then try methods that fit their needs. This is a collaborative process and can be adjusted as progress is made.
Online therapy with Elena is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. Video calls enable face-to-face conversation and non-verbal cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or when a quieter voice-only check-in fits a break at work. Live chat and text messaging suit shorter check-ins, written reflection, or when someone prefers not to use audio or video. These options make it easier to fit therapy into everyday life while keeping the focus on practical support and emotional understanding.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 6 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, Italian
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