About Betsy
Dr. Betsy Puentes uses straightforward, practical therapy to help people manage anxiety and stress. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and a licensed professional counselor with a long clinical history.
She writes plainly and listens carefully so people feel heard and understood. With 46 years of experience, Dr. Puentes helps people facing depression, low self-esteem, career struggles, relationship concerns, addiction challenges, and difficult life changes.
She treats trauma and abuse, anger issues, and a wide range of emotional and behavioral concerns.
Background and approach
Her approach centers on helping each person build on their own strengths to move forward. Sessions focus on real-life skills and clear goals. She draws on approaches such as acceptance and commitment work, cognitive behavioral strategies, emotionally focused methods, existential ideas, and Imago relationship tools.
Conversations aim to identify what matters to the person and practical steps to reduce distress. Dr. Puentes helps people who are wrestling with attachment worries, abandonment fears, chronic illness or pain, caregiver stress, body image, codependency, and communication or commitment issues.
She also addresses concerns like avoidant or dependent personality patterns and mood dysregulation challenges. She practices in Texas and conducts sessions in English. Her style is collaborative and direct.
People who choose her often want guidance that is experienced, steady, and focused on usable change.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online sessions
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings while choosing actions that match their values. It can reduce avoidance and support steadier responses to anxiety and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thinking and trying different behaviors to change mood and stress. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and coping with everyday problems. Emotionally-Focused Therapy, or EFT, centers on recognizing emotions and the patterns that keep people stuck, which can help with relationship strain and attachment concerns.Choosing the best approach is a shared process. The therapist will talk with the person about their goals, what has helped before, and their preferences. Together they decide what to try first and review progress as sessions continue, adjusting methods as needed.
Online work uses video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy fit into busy lives. Video is useful for in-depth conversations and exercises; phone can be easier when video bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging support brief check-ins, written reflections, and steady contact between longer sessions. These options offer flexibility for scheduling, travel, and different communication needs while keeping attention on practical change and emotional growth.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 46 years
- Licensed
- Texas
- Languages
- English
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