About Elli
Elli Billingsley is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Oklahoma. She earned a bachelor’s in psychology and a master’s in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University. Elli brings a warm, empathic presence to sessions and focuses on building a strong working relationship from the start.
She keeps sessions client-centered and straightforward. Elli combines person-centered methods with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and tailors each session to what the person needs that day.
Background and approach
She uses clear exercises and practical talk to help people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and identity concerns. Elli also draws on cognitive behavioral strategies and mindfulness skills to address patterns of thinking and feeling that get in the way. That can include coping tools for anger, grief, low self-esteem, and relationship problems.
She pays attention to trauma and its effects when it’s relevant to a person’s goals. Her background includes work with LGBT concerns, trauma and abuse, ADHD, and caregiving stress, among other issues. Elli describes therapy as a collaborative process - she listens, reflects, and offers methods people can try between sessions.
Sessions are organized around what each person wants to change or understand. Elli supports practical steps for everyday challenges like career stress, parenting strain, eating and body-image issues, and life transitions. Her style aims to make emotional work manageable and directly useful in daily life.
Therapeutic Approaches That Translate Online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts without getting stuck in them and focus on values-based actions. ACT is useful for anxiety, stress, and life changes where someone wants clearer direction and practical steps.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact and teaches strategies to change unhelpful patterns. CBT is commonly used for anxiety, depression, and coping skills for daily challenges.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Elli will listen to goals and try methods that fit the person’s needs and preferences. She adjusts techniques if something isn’t working and checks in regularly about progress.
Online therapy offers flexible options: video calls for full sessions, phone for lower bandwidth or simpler check-ins, live chat for short conversations, and text-based messaging for ongoing check-ins between meetings. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or busy schedules and to use tools in the moments when they matter most.
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What this therapist works with
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- HIV / AIDS
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 3 years
- Licensed
- Oklahoma
- Languages
- English
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