About Toni
Toni Hernalsteen is a licensed master social worker (LMSW) practicing in Michigan with 17 years of experience. She works with adults on common concerns like stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, and addiction. Toni aims to make the first step feel doable and meets people with respect and compassion.
Toni uses straightforward, practical conversations to help people find motivation and keep moving forward. She listens actively and adapts the plan to each person’s needs instead of using a one-size-fits-all approach.
Background and approach
Expect a mix of talking, skill practice, and attention to what matters most to you. Her approach draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, along with client-centered and mindfulness-based work. Toni also uses motivational interviewing techniques to support people who want change but feel stuck.
These methods are used to address problems such as sleep disruption, low self-esteem, anger, and life transitions. She has substantial experience with caregiving stress, chronic illness and pain, codependency, substance and alcohol concerns, and trauma and abuse. Toni also helps people facing issues like abandonment, body image, cancer-related challenges, and aging-related changes.
Sessions are shaped around practical steps you can try between meetings. Toni believes in tailoring therapy so it fits your life and goals. She creates a calm space to reflect and build understanding.
If you want a plan that balances listening with action, her style offers structure plus empathy.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and then commit to actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and big life changes because it focuses on what matters rather than trying to eliminate every difficult feeling. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches concrete skills to shift unhelpful patterns. CBT often helps with anxiety, depression, sleep issues, and anger by giving tools to try between sessions. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, nonjudgmental relationship where the therapist follows the client’s lead and supports their own problem-solving and growth.Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to choose methods that match your goals and preferences. That might mean starting with one approach and adding another later, or combining elements from different methods to fit your situation.
Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and skill practice; phone sessions can be a good shorter check-in or useful when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging make it easier to fit support into a busy day or to keep a running conversation between sessions. These options make it simpler to match therapy to your schedule and needs.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 17 years
- Licensed
- Michigan
- Languages
- English
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