About John
John Self is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Texas with 30 years of experience. He focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, addiction concerns, and life transitions. He frames therapy as a partnership, believing clients bring important strengths to the work.
He aims to support people who are ready to take steps toward clearer goals and better day-to-day functioning. He draws on a mix of practical techniques to address everyday problems.
Background and approach
Conversations are direct and goal oriented. Clients learn coping skills, relaxation methods, and ways to handle difficult emotions. Homework and simple practice between sessions are often part of the plan.
When relationships or attachment issues come up, he looks at how early patterns affect current connections. For anxiety and mood concerns he uses behavioral tools that help change thinking and actions. For trauma or addiction concerns he pairs practical strategies with steady support to rebuild routines and safety.
Sessions are aimed at real-life problems like parenting strain, sleep disruption, workplace stress, and managing urges or cravings. He also works on communication, commitment worries, and coping with loss or major life change. The approach is adjustable to the person’s needs and pace.
John keeps language simple and avoids jargon. He collaborates on goals and checks progress along the way. People who want clear steps, tools to practice, and a steady supporter through change often find this approach useful.
How therapy methods translate to online sessions
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters most and take small steps toward those values. It uses mindfulness and committed action to reduce avoidance and make values-driven decisions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thought and behavior that keep problems like anxiety and low mood going and teaches practical ways to test and change those patterns. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) focuses on emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and improving communication when emotions feel overwhelming.Deciding which approach fits best is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to match methods to their goals, symptoms, and life circumstances. Plans can shift over time as progress is made or new priorities emerge.
Online therapy offers a range of session types to fit different needs. Video calls let people talk face to face for deeper clinical work and role play. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth or mobility is limited. Live chat and text messaging work well for short check-ins, skill reminders, or quick coaching between longer sessions. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care while juggling work, school, or family responsibilities.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Grief
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Gottman Method
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Experience
- 30 years
- Licensed
- Texas
- Languages
- English
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