About Ellen
Ellen Shafer-Lind is a licensed independent mental health practitioner (LIMHP) in Nebraska who helps people manage stress and anxiety. She often supports those facing relationship strain, grief, addictions, and life transitions. Her approach is practical and empathetic, aimed at helping clients gain ground and feel steadier in daily life.
She draws on more than three decades of clinical work, including experience at the Veterans Health Administration and time on an adolescent unit.
Background and approach
Ellen earned a Master of Social Work from the University of Nebraska at Omaha and holds a LIMHP credential in Nebraska. In sessions she uses straightforward techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy to tackle unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. She also brings client-centered and psychodynamic ideas into the conversation to understand patterns and personal history.
Solution-focused strategies help set clear, short-term goals when people want concrete change. Ellen aims for a calm, encouraging presence. She listens for what matters to each person and tailors methods to their needs.
Sessions typically focus on building coping skills, improving communication, and resolving pressing problems. Her background includes grief and loss counseling, veteran-related concerns, and work with families around relationship and parenting stress. Clients can expect a therapist who values empathy and practical problem solving while supporting them toward greater stability.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Client-centered therapy focuses on building a respectful, nonjudgmental relationship where the client's own goals drive the work. This approach helps people feel heard and make choices that fit their values.Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, targets unhelpful thoughts and behaviors with practical exercises. It is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress to teach clear coping skills and problem-solving steps.
Psychodynamic therapy looks at patterns from a person's past and how they show up now. It can help uncover repeated relationship problems and longstanding emotional themes to create more lasting change.
Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Ellen will collaborate with each person to figure out which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. She adapts techniques over time so sessions match what is working for the client.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility. Video lets people work face to face when that feels useful, while phone calls need less bandwidth and can fit a work break. Live chat or messaging can be a shorter check-in or an ongoing way to share thoughts between sessions. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent despite busy schedules.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Family conflicts
- Grief
Also listed
- Addictions
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 36 years
- Licensed
- Nebraska
- Languages
- English
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