About Deborah
Deborah Tommey is a Licensed Professional Counselor who helps people manage stress, anxiety, grief, depression, and trauma. She works with adults and aims to create a calm, hopeful space where clients can name what they want to change and take steps toward it. Deborah practices with a plain, respectful style and uses conversational check-ins to clarify goals.
She trained at Oklahoma State University/Tulsa and brings 15 years of counseling experience.
Background and approach
Her work includes support for caregiving challenges and aging-related concerns, as well as sexuality and LGBTQ matters. She also has experience addressing hoarding, sleep problems, anger, and relationship or intimacy-related issues. Deborah favors approaches that center the person in the room.
She uses Client-Centered methods to build trust and listens for each person's priorities. Solution-Focused techniques help set short-term steps and measure progress in practical ways. Mindfulness practices are offered when helpful to reduce worry and improve attention to the present moment.
She also draws on Existential ideas to help people reflect on meaning, values, and life direction when they face big transitions or questions about purpose. Sessions can include talk therapy, brief coaching-style guidance, and tools to practice between meetings. Deborah offers phone, video, and messaging options so people can choose what fits their routines and needs.
Her approach is collaborative and goal oriented, aiming to help people feel more capable when life feels overwhelming.
Therapeutic approaches for online counseling and goals
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening closely and following the client's lead. It aims to create a respectful conversation where the person sets goals and the therapist reflects what matters most. This approach helps with anxiety, low self-esteem, and relationship concerns by building a trusting working relationship.Solution-Focused Therapy zeroes in on small, doable steps that lead to change. Sessions often include setting concrete goals and identifying what has worked before, which can be helpful for stress, sleep issues, and coping with life changes. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple present-moment skills to reduce worry and improve emotional regulation, useful for anxiety and trauma-related symptoms.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences, and may combine techniques across sessions. That choice is revisited as progress is made so the plan stays practical and relevant.
Online sessions are offered by phone or video, and Deborah also uses live chat and text-based messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can be easier when lower bandwidth or no camera is preferred. Messaging supports brief check-ins or notes between meetings. These options make therapy flexible for different schedules and life demands.
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What this therapist works with
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Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 15 years
- Licensed
- Oklahoma
- Languages
- English
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