About David
David Shirly is a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) based in Florida. He focuses on helping people manage anxiety, stress, depression, and relationship problems with straightforward, practical support. His style is calm and direct, aimed at making therapy understandable and useful for everyday life.
David uses a mix of approaches to match each person’s needs. He draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thoughts and change them. He also uses Client-Centered methods to listen closely and build a trusting working relationship.
Background and approach
Many people come for help with sleep trouble, low self-esteem, addiction concerns, or difficulties with intimacy. He also supports those dealing with trauma, anger, parenting strain, and issues connected to attachment and abandonment. Sessions often focus on small, doable changes that reduce distress and improve daily functioning.
Over ten years of practice have shaped a practical, goal-oriented approach. David helps clients set clear steps and track progress. He emphasizes skills people can use outside sessions to handle stress and manage emotions.
Therapy sessions are offered in English and work via online formats. International clients are accepted. New clients begin by completing a short matching questionnaire and then scheduling sessions based on availability.
Approach-driven online therapy for everyday challenges
David often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. CBT is practical and focuses on actions and thinking patterns that affect mood, making it useful for anxiety, depression, sleep issues, and stress.He also draws on Client-Centered Therapy, which prioritizes listening and creating a nonjudgmental space. This approach helps people feel heard and supported while they work through relationship struggles, self-esteem concerns, and past hurt.
Finding the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will discuss goals and try methods that fit the person's needs and preferences. Together they decide whether to focus on skills training, deeper emotional work, or a mix of both.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video works well for face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for a quick check-in. Live chat and messaging suit short updates, ongoing coaching, or people who prefer typed communication. These options make it easier to build consistency and fit sessions into a busy life.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Florida, New York
- Languages
- English
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