About Eric
Eric Bolella is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) who focuses on trauma, anxiety, and life stress. He works with adults to address grief, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, and the fallout from past abuse. He practices via telehealth from Connecticut and brings ten years of clinical experience to each session.
He uses a solution-focused style in sessions that keeps conversations practical and goal oriented. He often blends client-centered listening with trauma-focused work to help people feel steadier in day-to-day life.
Background and approach
Mindfulness and narrative techniques are used to help people notice patterns and tell a clearer story about their experiences. Eric has worked in outpatient settings with inner-city youth and low-income families, and has clinical experience managing therapeutic group homes for adolescents. He also ran a nonprofit domestic violence program aimed at reducing abusive behavior and repairing family connections when possible.
That background informs how he approaches safety, communication, and long-term change. In sessions he aims to identify small, manageable steps that reduce distress and build skills for coping. He helps people address issues such as attachment wounds, codependency, body image, and caregiver stress by breaking problems into workable parts.
He also supports those facing major life transitions, career pressures, or the emotional impact of illness. Eric frames therapy as a collaborative process. He listens, offers reflective questions, and works with each person to set realistic goals.
Appointments are offered by video, phone, live chat, or text messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How Eric Uses Practical Therapies Online
Eric often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people spot unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors. CBT breaks problems into clear parts and provides steps for reducing anxiety, depression, and stress.He also draws on client-centered therapy, which emphasizes listening and responding to what each person brings. This approach helps people feel heard and shapes goals that matter to them.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. Treatment plans are adjusted over time based on what is helping and what is not.
Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different lives. Video calls let someone use visual cues and fuller conversation. Phone sessions can be easier when video isn’t possible or bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging are useful for shorter check-ins, quick strategies, or when typing feels more comfortable.
These options make it easier to keep appointments around work, school, or caregiving duties, and they allow therapy to continue through life changes without requiring travel.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sleeping disorders
- Stress, Anxiety
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Connecticut
- Languages
- English
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