About Elena
Elena Balashova-Shamis is a California psychologist with over 23 years of clinical experience. She combines long-term clinical practice with academic teaching to help people manage stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, and grief. She is licensed as a CA Psychologist, PSY20104, and communicates in English and Russian.
Her background includes teaching at several local universities and involvement in academic work such as presentations and publications. That experience informs a thoughtful, reflective approach in sessions.
Background and approach
She draws on a range of evidence-based therapeutic techniques and adapts them to each person's needs. In the therapy room she focuses on practical steps people can use right away. Sessions often include talking through patterns, planning small behavior changes, and practicing ways to reduce anxiety.
She pays attention to attachment and abandonment concerns when they come up, and addresses issues like body image, eating-related problems, and caregiver stress. She also supports people coping with trauma and dissociation, as well as those dealing with divorce, separation, or loss. First responder stress and recovery after natural or human-caused disasters are listed concerns she addresses.
Her work balances depth with clear, doable strategies. Sessions are offered through video calls, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging. People interested in starting complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to therapist availability.
Evidence-based approaches and online care
Elena uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques in ways that are easy to understand and use. One common strand in her work focuses on understanding attachment and abandonment patterns - looking at how early relationships shape current reactions and teaching ways to shift those patterns to reduce anxiety and improve relationships. Another emphasis is on trauma-informed work that helps people reduce symptoms of traumatic stress and dissociation by building grounding skills and pacing deeper exploration so it feels manageable.Choosing the right approach is a shared process. She will work with each person to decide which techniques fit their goals, needs, and comfort level, and will adjust the plan over time. This collaborative stance helps shape sessions that feel relevant and realistic for everyday life.
Online therapy offers practical benefits that match her flexible practice. Video calls let people keep face-to-face connection when that is helpful. Phone sessions can be used for lower-bandwidth check-ins or when being on camera is not convenient. Live chat and text-based messaging support brief check-ins, between-session contact, or stepping into therapy for the first time without committing to longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life while keeping focus on progress and coping.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Eating and food-related issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
- Experience
- 23 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English, Russian
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