About Valerie
Valerie Monteiro is an ACA counsellor with 21 years of experience working in Australia. She offers calm, direct support for people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief and depression. She draws on relationship work and body-based approaches to help people find steadiness in daily life.
Valerie keeps sessions practical and conversational. She listens for what matters most and helps people set small, achievable steps. Her style is warm and respectful, with an emphasis on rebuilding connection and emotional safety within relationships.
Background and approach
Her background includes work with trauma, abuse and complex grief. Valerie also supports people with intimacy concerns, eating and sleeping difficulties, anger, low self‑esteem and career stress. She brings experience helping those dealing with chronic illness, caregiving strain and compassion fatigue.
Therapy may draw on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Emotionally‑Focused Therapy and EMDR. Valerie adapts these methods to suit each person's needs, focusing on what is useful right now rather than rigid technique. Sessions are offered in English and Hindi.
Valerie works with practical goals like improving communication, managing anxiety and navigating big life changes. She aims to help people build more calm, clearer thinking and stronger relationships.
Therapeutic approaches for anxiety and relationship work online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety and life changes by focusing on small, value‑driven steps rather than trying to eliminate difficult feelings. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy looks at how thoughts, feelings and behaviours interact and teaches practical strategies to shift unhelpful patterns. It often helps with stress, anxiety and sleep problems by breaking problems into manageable parts.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Valerie will discuss different methods and collaborate with each person to decide what fits their goals and preferences. That way therapy is shaped around real life needs rather than a one‑size‑fits‑all model.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text‑based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video calls suit deeper conversation and visual connection while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low. Live chat or text messaging can be used for brief check‑ins or ongoing coaching between sessions. These options let people fit therapy around work, caregiving and everyday life.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Gottman Method
- Hypnotherapy
- Imago Relationship Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Experience
- 21 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, Hindi
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