About Melissa
Dr. Melissa Oleshansky is a Michigan psychologist with 25 years of experience helping adults face stress and anxiety. She writes as Dr.
O and blends clinical background with a coaching style to support people during life transitions. Her work focuses on practical skills for coping, building confidence, and managing strong emotions. Dr.
O's background includes a doctoral degree in clinical health psychology and two master's degrees in clinical psychology and in school and community psychology.
Background and approach
She has spent more than two decades working with adults confronting anxiety, depression, and major life changes. Her credential is MI Psychologist 6301012612. In sessions she mixes evidence-informed strategies with coaching.
That means teaching skills to calm the body's stress response, develop steady routines, and tackle problems step by step. She describes her style as direct, nonjudgmental, and compassionate, and she often frames goals around rebuilding confidence and finding purpose. Therapeutic tools she uses include cognitive behavioral techniques, acceptance and commitment ideas, attachment-focused perspectives, and emotionally-focused methods.
These approaches are presented plainly so people can try them between sessions and see what works. Many people come for help with anxiety, relationship and intimacy worries, grief, sleep or eating concerns, parenting strain, addiction, or career stress. Dr.
O also lists support for ADHD, bipolar symptoms, caregiver stress, and issues that arise after separation or infidelity. She offers multiple online formats and works in English. People who want to start are asked to complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a time that fits their needs.
Approaches that guide online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It helps people clarify values and take small, value-driven steps even when anxiety or painful emotions show up.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It teaches concrete techniques to change unhelpful thinking patterns, reshape habits, and reduce worry or depressive symptoms.
Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to patterns in close relationships and how they affect emotion regulation. It is useful for people who want to improve intimacy, manage fear of rejection, or break repeating relationship cycles.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about their goals, try strategies together, and adjust the plan based on what helps most. This is a collaborative process focused on practical changes and clearer direction.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs. Video is helpful for teaching skills and reading nonverbal cues. Phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for a longer check-in. Live chat and text messaging work well for short updates, brief coaching, and ongoing support between sessions. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into busy schedules and to continue work during life transitions.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
Also listed
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Phobias
- Postpartum depression
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Experience
- 25 years
- Licensed
- Michigan
- Languages
- English
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