About Thomas
Thomas Flanagan is a licensed social worker with forty years helping people manage stress and anxiety. He is direct and practical in sessions. He listens to each person's story and looks for strengths to build on.
He uses a strengths-based, client-centered style to find what already works for a person. That practical focus is paired with techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy when helpful. These approaches help people change unhelpful thoughts, manage intense emotions, and build new coping skills.
Background and approach
Thomas has worked with a wide range of concerns, including addiction, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, and issues around intimacy and identity. He also supports people dealing with career changes, caregiver stress, compassion fatigue, and the pressures first responders face. He pays attention to how life events and family history affect current problems.
Sessions tend to be straightforward and goal-oriented. Thomas will help set clear steps to try between meetings and check progress along the way. He values collaboration and practical tools that fit into everyday life.
People who want a pragmatic approach often appreciate his style. He encourages active effort and offers coaching alongside traditional therapy skills. Work begins by talking through immediate concerns and then building a plan that feels doable.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Thomas often combines Client-Centered Therapy with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, empathy, and helping people identify their own goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns.He also draws on Dialectical Behavior Therapy for emotion regulation and distress tolerance when people face intense feelings. DBT offers clear skills for managing overwhelm and improving relationships. Together these methods give both supportive listening and concrete tools to try between sessions.
Finding the right fit is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences, then recommend approaches to try. They adjust methods as progress is reviewed so therapy stays aligned with what the person needs.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to match different schedules and needs. Video works well for deeper conversational work, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and messaging or chat suits quick check-ins or ongoing coaching. These options make it simpler to fit sessions into work, caregiving, or daily life while using the chosen therapeutic approaches.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Visually impaired
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 40 years
- Licensed
- Kansas, Missouri, Colorado
- Languages
- English
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