About Clare
Clare Payne is a counsellor who aims to make therapy straightforward and practical. She works with people on common concerns such as anxiety, stress, low self-esteem and relationship difficulties. Clare speaks plainly and focuses on what matters most to the client on the day.
She trained with a Postgraduate Diploma in Integrative Counselling and Coaching from the University of East London. Clare also completed earlier courses in Person-Centred Counselling and Life Coaching, which shape her flexible way of working.
Background and approach
She uses that variety to meet different needs rather than following one fixed method. In sessions she starts from a person-centred place, letting the client set the pace and shape the conversation. Early meetings focus on understanding why someone has come to therapy and what they want to change.
Clare helps people notice repeated patterns and stuck points, then works with them to try small practical steps forward. As therapy continues she may draw on approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based ideas, motivational interviewing or psychodynamic thinking to suit the person. Sessions are 45 minutes long and concentrate on clear, achievable goals when that is helpful.
Clare practises across a broad range of concerns including grief, trauma, parenting stress, career pressures, intimacy-related issues and compassion fatigue. She works in English and sees people in the United Kingdom. The aim is to help people feel steadier and clearer about what they want next.
How Clare’s approaches work online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, stress and feeling stuck. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns in close relationships and how early experiences shape current reactions. It can help with relationship worries, intimacy issues and attachment-related distress.Finding the right approach is a shared process. Clare will work with the client to test which methods feel most useful and adjust as therapy progresses. Sessions begin by clarifying goals and then trying small, practical steps that fit the person's needs and preferences.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging, which gives practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that is preferred. Phone sessions can be helpful when bandwidth is limited or for shorter check-ins. Live chat and messaging suit people who prefer writing or need brief, ongoing support between meetings. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and daily life.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- LGBT
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 4 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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