About Brandi
Brandi Loudermilk, LCMFT, offers a direct and practical approach to therapy for people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, or struggles around intimacy and relationships. She presents herself as a steady guide who listens without judgement and helps clients find workable next steps. With ten years of clinical experience, Brandi has worked with many different concerns.
She has particular experience supporting people from LGBTQ communities and those involved in non-traditional relationship structures.
Background and approach
She also has experience with sexual concerns, consensual non-monogamy, BDSM and kink, and with clients who have intellectual and developmental disabilities or persistent mental health challenges. Her approach focuses on building skills and new patterns that fit each person's life. Sessions are practical and conversational, with attention to real situations and relationship patterns.
Brandi helps people identify what gets in the way and practices tools to change those patterns. Brandi holds a Kansas LCMFT, which stands for Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist. She practices in Kansas and conducts sessions in English.
She does not take international clients. Therapy with Brandi is available through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. The service uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time, and cost varies by location and therapist availability.
How evidence-based approaches translate to online therapy
Brandi uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change. One common approach she emphasizes is skill-building for anxiety and stress management. This involves learning short exercises and coping steps to reduce worry and improve daily functioning in specific situations.She also works on relationship and intimacy patterns by identifying interaction habits and practicing new ways of communicating. These sessions often include role play, straightforward feedback, and homework to try between sessions so patterns can shift over time.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Brandi collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. She adapts techniques when something isn’t working and checks in regularly to make sure the plan still fits.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, which offer flexibility for different schedules and needs. Video allows face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions can be a better fit when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging let clients share updates and get support between synchronous sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life while working toward the same goals as in-person care.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Kansas
- Languages
- English
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