About Sulette
Sulette Snyman is a counsellor who focuses on practical, person-centred help for stress and anxiety. She draws on 21 years of professional experience and speaks English and Afrikaans. She works with clients across a range of mood and life concerns and accepts international clients in the United Kingdom context.
Sulette uses a client-centred stance to listen and respond to what matters most to each person. She also makes use of cognitive behavioural techniques to help people notice and change unhelpful thinking and behaviour.
Background and approach
When past distress is affecting day-to-day life she can use eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing as part of trauma work. Sessions begin with a clear look at what a person wants to change. Sulette then co‑creates a simple plan and practical steps.
That might include short experiments between sessions, breathing or grounding strategies, or work on values and life direction. The focus is on small, steady changes clients can use right away. She brings sensitivity to issues such as grief, relationship difficulties, parenting strains, identity questions, eating and sleeping concerns, and career stress.
Sulette also supports people facing adoption, immigration or fertility questions, and those dealing with guilt, shame or feelings of emptiness. People can expect straightforward talk, respectful curiosity and tailored tools rather than clinical jargon. She explains NCPS when relevant and draws on her years of practice to adapt approaches to each person’s situation.
How different approaches work online
Client-centred therapy places the person’s experience at the heart of each session. The therapist listens closely, reflects what she hears and helps people set goals that matter to them. This approach is useful for stress, life transitions and questions of purpose.Cognitive behavioural therapy focuses on spotting unhelpful thoughts and trying out new behaviours. It often includes short exercises and structured tasks between sessions to reduce anxiety and lift mood.
Eye movement desensitisation and reprocessing offers a way to process distressing memories so they feel less disruptive in daily life. It is used when past trauma affects current functioning and can be combined with other approaches.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss options with each person and adjust methods to fit their goals, needs and preferences rather than imposing a single method.
Online therapy here uses video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to offer flexibility. Video is helpful for conversations that benefit from face-to-face contact. Phone sessions can work when bandwidth is limited or for a shorter check-in. Live chat and messaging suit people who prefer writing or need to fit sessions around busy days. These options make it easier to attend regularly and to try different ways of working.
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What this therapist works with
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Attachment issues
- Career difficulties
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 21 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English, Afrikaans
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