About Velma
Velma Gettelman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Texas with 20 years of experience. She focuses on anxiety, stress, relationship strain, and life transitions. Parents and adults often seek her help for low self-esteem, mood shifts, trauma, and problems that affect daily functioning.
Velma keeps sessions warm and nonjudgmental. She listens first and tailors conversations to each person's needs. Sessions aim to identify what is getting in the way, build practical skills, and set clear next steps.
Background and approach
Her work draws on client-centered techniques that prioritize the person’s voice. She also uses cognitive behavioral methods to spot unhelpful thinking and to practice new patterns. Emotionally-focused ideas inform work on attachment and repairing strained connections.
Motivational interviewing helps when someone feels stuck or unsure about change. Existential thinking is used to discuss meaning, values, and the choices people face. These approaches are blended to match goals rather than follow one fixed plan.
Velma has supported people through parenting stresses, relationship breakups, grief, workplace tensions, and adjustments after big life events. She emphasizes collaboration, clear goals, and small steps that can change daily life. Her style is direct but compassionate, with a focus on what clients can do between sessions to move forward.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Client-centered therapy places the person’s experience at the center of conversation. In this approach the therapist listens closely, reflects feelings and priorities, and shapes sessions around what matters most to the client. It helps when someone needs a respectful space to sort through emotions and choices.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions. Sessions involve identifying unhelpful thinking patterns and practicing alternative ways of thinking and behaving. CBT is useful for anxiety, low mood, and problems that respond to skill work and structured practice.
Emotionally-Focused Therapy looks at how emotions show up in relationships and attachment. It supports people who want to repair bonds, express needs more clearly, or understand patterns that repeat in close relationships.
Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. Plans are adjusted over time based on what helps and what doesn’t work.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video lets people read facial cues and hold longer conversations. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text work well for brief check-ins, skill practice, or when writing feels more comfortable. These options help people fit sessions around work, family, or school commitments while staying connected with a licensed professional.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Forgiveness
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- Texas
- Languages
- English
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