About Joy
Joy Graves is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 20 years of experience helping people manage stress and anxiety. She practices in Washington and focuses on depression, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, and building self-esteem. Joy aims to create a calm, approachable space where people can talk through what feels overwhelming right now.
She listens for each person’s story and helps identify small, practical steps to feel better day to day.
Background and approach
Sessions often focus on coping with panic attacks, addressing the effects of past trauma, and managing mood shifts such as Seasonal Affective Disorder. Joy also supports people facing life changes like divorce, caregiving strain, adoption and foster care issues, and blended family challenges. Joy pays attention to cultural background and how identity shapes experience.
Conversations may include communication strategies, handling isolation or loneliness, and finding a clearer sense of life purpose. She works with people dealing with chronic pain, illness, or disability and helps them find ways to live more fully despite ongoing health concerns. In therapy she helps people practice self-compassion, set realistic goals, and try out new behaviors between sessions.
Her approach emphasizes practical tools for emotion regulation and clearer ways to connect with others. People leave with concrete skills they can use when stress or old patterns return. Joy welcomes questions about how therapy might fit into a person’s life and offers a variety of remote session formats to match different needs.
She guides each person toward an approach that fits their goals and daily routines.
Evidence-informed approaches and online care
Joy uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on skills and healing rather than jargon. One common approach she uses teaches practical emotion regulation skills to help people reduce anxiety and manage panic symptoms; it focuses on breathing, grounding, and step-by-step exposure to feared situations. Another approach emphasizes trauma-focused work that helps people process painful memories and reduce their day-to-day impact through pacing, safety planning, and gradual integration of difficult experiences.Finding the right mix of methods is a collaborative process. Joy works with each person to identify goals, notices what helps, and adjusts approach based on progress and preferences. She discusses options openly so people understand why a strategy is being tried and how it connects to their goals.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different routines and needs. Video lets for a fuller conversation and visual cues, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat is helpful for focused check-ins, and messaging supports short updates or exercises between meetings. These formats make therapy more flexible for people balancing work, caregiving, or health concerns and let the therapist and client shape a plan that fits their day.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Blended family issues
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Communication problems
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Forgiveness
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- Washington
- Languages
- English
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