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Gemma Lillington, BACP

Warm, practical counselling for anxiety and life change

5 years in practice · based in United Kingdom · sessions in English · online sessions

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About Gemma

Gemma Lillington is a counsellor with five years of practice in the United Kingdom. She offers a warm, welcoming space for people feeling anxious, overwhelmed, low in mood, or struggling with relationships. Gemma focuses on helping individuals understand what is going on and find practical ways forward.

She uses an integrative style, drawing on several approaches to fit the person in front of her. Sessions move at a pace that feels right for the client.

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Background and approach

The aim is to build insight while also developing tools to manage everyday stress and anxiety. People come to Gemma for many reasons, including stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief, trauma and relationship difficulties. She also supports those dealing with life changes, addictions, sleep or eating concerns, anger, career questions and ADHD-related challenges.

Gemma works collaboratively and listens without judgement. She blends talking therapy with practical strategies so people can try small changes between sessions. This combination helps people cope day to day while exploring deeper patterns.

Sessions are offered by video, phone, live chat or text messaging to suit different needs. Gemma explains options clearly and helps clients choose a way of working that fits their routine and preferences.

How Gemma's approaches work online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person's experience. The therapist offers empathy and follows the client's agenda, which can help with anxiety and low mood by making people feel heard and supported.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It uses practical exercises and experiments that people can try between sessions to reduce anxious thinking and build coping habits.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Gemma works collaboratively to choose or combine methods based on the client's needs, goals and preferences. Together they review what helps and adjust the plan as work progresses.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and therapy exercises, while phone calls require less bandwidth and can fit into a work break. Live chat and messaging suit brief check-ins, written reflection and flexibility with timing. These options make it easier to find a way of working that fits everyday life and keeps therapy practical.
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Questions people ask

What kinds of problems does this counsellor address?
Common concerns include stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, depression, grief, trauma and relationship difficulties, along with issues like sleep, eating, anger, career and addictions.
How would you describe the therapeutic style?
Gemma works in an integrative, client-centred way and adapts methods to each person. Expect a mix of talking, developing insight and learning practical coping strategies.
How much experience does the counsellor have?
She has five years of professional experience working with adults on a range of emotional and life challenges.
What are the counsellor's credentials and where are they based?
Gemma holds membership with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English only.
What session formats are available?
Work can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different preferences and schedules.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work with this counsellor?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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Experience
5 years
Licensed
Languages
English

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