About Thomas
Thomas "Tom" Relevitch is a counsellor with ten years of professional experience based in the United Kingdom. He focuses on practical help for people dealing with stress and anxiety, relationship strains, LGBT concerns and major life changes. Tom aims to make the first steps less daunting by offering a calm, open space to talk.
He respects the courage it takes to start therapy and keeps sessions straightforward and focused. Tom usually creates sessions that let people say what matters most to them.
Background and approach
He listens, reflects, and helps people notice patterns that affect their mood and choices. His approach draws on client-centred work that puts the person’s concerns at the centre, psychodynamic ideas that look at repeating patterns and past influences, and solution-focused techniques that build small, achievable steps forward. Over a decade of practice has given Tom experience with a wide range of issues.
These include abandonment and attachment worries, communication problems, infidelity and separation, and feelings of emptiness or isolation. He also supports people navigating kink and alternative sex cultures, polyamory, multicultural issues and men’s midlife concerns. Sessions are offered in English and Tom accepts international clients.
He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - BACP. The majority of his availability is between 12 noon and 5 pm GMT, Monday to Thursday. Tom uses straightforward conversation and achievable actions.
He helps people set small goals, track progress and adjust plans as life changes. The focus is on practical relief from anxiety and clearer steps toward what matters next.
Therapeutic approaches and online support
Tom commonly uses client-centred work, psychodynamic thinking and solution-focused techniques. Client-centred therapy means the conversation is led by the person’s needs, with the counsellor listening closely and reflecting what matters most. Psychodynamic therapy looks at recurring patterns and past influences that shape current feelings and behaviour. Solution-focused therapy emphasises small, practical steps and clear goals to move forward.Finding the right approach is part of the process. Tom will work collaboratively to decide which ideas fit a person’s needs and preferences. Together they will try methods, review what helps, and adjust the plan as progress is made.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video calls suit full conversations and face-to-face interaction. Phone sessions are useful when video is impractical or bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging can provide brief check-ins, ongoing reflection, or support between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, travel and busy days while keeping the focus on dealing with anxiety and life changes.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also listed
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Coaching
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Divorce and separation
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Languages
- English
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