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Nicola Lomas, BACP

Compassionate counsellor for anxiety and trauma

5 years in practice · based in United Kingdom · sessions in English · online sessions

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About Nicola

Nicola Lomas offers support for people struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and issues related to sexuality and LGBT matters. She creates a calm, non-judgemental space where clients can talk at their own speed. Nicola introduces practical ways to manage overwhelming feelings while also listening to the story behind them.

Nicola works from an integrative perspective, which means she draws on a range of therapeutic ideas and adapts them to each person.

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Background and approach

That flexible approach is used to help with symptoms like panic or low mood and with relational concerns such as attachment and communication problems. Sessions are intended to balance practical coping skills with space to process difficult experiences. A notable part of Nicola's practice is supporting survivors of sexual abuse and rape.

She aims to work sensitively and at a pace agreed with the client, focusing on rebuilding self-trust and resilience. Nicola also addresses related issues such as guilt, shame, isolation and post-traumatic stress. Nicola is a BACP member, which indicates her professional registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

She has five years' experience working with people facing emotional and psychological distress. Work with Nicola can include talking therapies that explore past experiences, practical strategies to manage anxiety and tailored conversations about sexuality and identity. The combination is intended to help people feel steadier, clearer and more able to make decisions about their lives.

Practical therapeutic approaches for online support

Nicola uses an integrative way of working that blends evidence-based techniques to suit each person's needs. One approach focuses on practical coping strategies for anxiety and stress, teaching breathing techniques, grounding and step-by-step plans to manage panic or overwhelming thoughts. Another strand concentrates on trauma-informed work for survivors of sexual abuse and rape, taking a careful, paced approach to help rebuild safety, self-trust and emotional regulation.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Nicola will discuss different options and decide together with the client what feels most helpful. That collaborative process means techniques can be adjusted as progress is made and as goals change over time.

Online sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging, offering flexibility for different lifestyles. Video calls are useful for face-to-face conversation when travel is difficult. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit into a short break. Live chat and text messaging suit brief check-ins or people who prefer writing. These formats make it easier to keep therapy going despite busy schedules or distance.
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Questions people ask

What concerns does Nicola commonly help with?
Nicola supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and LGBT matters. She also works on related concerns such as abandonment, attachment issues, communication problems, guilt and shame, isolation and self-love.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is integrative and adaptable, combining listening with practical techniques. She aims to tailor sessions to each person's needs and pace.
What is her professional background?
Nicola has five years' experience as a counsellor and has worked closely with people affected by sexual abuse and rape.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.
Can sessions be held in languages other than English?
Sessions are offered in English.
Which session formats are available?
Nicola offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different preferences and schedules.
How are fees handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What is the first step to begin therapy?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

What this therapist works with

Experience
5 years
Licensed
Languages
English

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