About Dorothy
Dorothy O'Neill is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California with 13 years of clinical experience. She focuses on stress, anxiety, relationships, family concerns, trauma and abuse, and depression. Dorothy aims to listen carefully and respond with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.
Her style centers on tailoring conversations and treatment to each person's needs. She helps people name what feels overwhelming and works with them to find practical steps forward.
Background and approach
Sessions emphasize clear goals, pacing that fits the client, and learning skills to manage symptoms between meetings. Dorothy has guided people through panic attacks, social anxiety, and post-traumatic stress. She also supports clients facing abandonment wounds, attachment struggles, and the fallout from narcissistic relationships.
Communication problems, control issues, divorce and separation, and grief around guilt or shame are common topics she addresses. She pays attention to life-stage questions like purpose, self-worth, and identity. Dorothy also offers focused support for men's issues and women's issues when those themes affect daily life.
Her work often includes building self-love, setting boundaries, and repairing communication. People meet Dorothy for a mix of short-term problem solving and longer-term personal work. She sets a plan together with each person and adjusts it as progress is made.
Her aim is to help people feel more steady and able to move toward what matters to them.
Evidence-based approaches for online anxiety and trauma care
Dorothy uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change. One approach involves learning skills to manage anxiety and panic - breathing and grounding tools, pacing exposure to fears, and practicing new responses to stressful thoughts. These skills are useful for panic disorder, social anxiety, and ongoing worry.Another common focus is trauma-informed care that helps people process distressing memories and the emotions tied to them. This work combines careful pacing with strategies to reduce overwhelm and rebuild a sense of control and safety in daily life.
Finding the right approach is a team effort. Dorothy works with each person to figure out which techniques fit their goals, pace, and preferences. She adjusts plans as progress is made and checks in regularly to make sure the work feels helpful.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be easier when you need a quick check-in. Live chat and text messaging let people send shorter updates, ask questions between sessions, and keep momentum when time is tight. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and to keep consistent contact with a licensed professional.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also listed
- Experience
- 13 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
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