About Derek
Derek Bakay is a licensed mental health counselor in New York with 15 years of clinical experience. He focuses on practical, person-centered care for people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, and major life changes. He talks plainly and listens closely to understand what matters most to each person.
Derek blends client-centered work with cognitive behavioral and solution-focused techniques. That means sessions often begin by identifying immediate problems and realistic steps to address them.
Background and approach
He helps people test small changes, notice what works, and build on those successes. Common concerns he addresses include career stress, caregiver strain, compassion fatigue, and the emotional effects of chronic illness or disability. He also supports people navigating relationship and intimacy issues, parenting challenges, and questions about life purpose and midlife transitions.
Derek aims to create a respectful, nonjudgmental space where clients are treated as the experts on their own lives. He avoids stigmatizing labels and prefers straightforward conversation about values, goals, and strengths. In sessions he uses clear goals and practical tools from cognitive behavioral approaches alongside solution-focused steps to make measurable progress.
People who choose his style often want strategies they can apply between meetings as well as a compassionate listener during hard moments.
How Derek's Approaches Work Online
Derek uses client-centered methods and cognitive behavioral work to help people manage stress and anxiety. Client-centered work focuses on listening and building a respectful relationship so clients can name their priorities and move at their own pace. Cognitive behavioral therapy looks at how thoughts, behaviors, and feelings interact and offers clear techniques to change unhelpful patterns.He also uses solution-focused steps to find practical, short-term changes that make daily life easier. That approach emphasizes small experiments and measurable goals so progress is visible between meetings. Choosing the right mix of approaches is a collaborative process - the therapist and client talk through goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then adjust the plan together as needed.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video calls let people use visual cues for deeper conversation. Phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited or a quieter check-in is needed. Live chat and messaging work well for brief coaching, quick check-ins, or fitting support into a busy day. These options make it easier to fit therapy into real life and keep momentum between sessions.
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What this therapist works with
Most often
- Stress, Anxiety
- Career difficulties
- Depression
Also listed
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Blended family issues
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Fatherhood issues
- Impulsivity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Visually impaired
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 15 years
- Licensed
- New York
- Languages
- English
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