SD Portrait of Stephanie DeMay

Stephanie DeMay, LCSW

Calm, practical support for anxious minds

10 years in practice · based in Virginia · sessions in English · online sessions

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About Stephanie

Stephanie DeMay is a licensed clinical social worker in Virginia with 10 years of professional experience. She helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, or the fallout of trauma and abuse. She also supports those facing addictions, difficult life transitions, and struggles with guilt and shame.

Her approach is practical and respectful. Conversations are tailored to each person’s needs and paced to match what feels manageable. She listens without judgment and works with clients to set clear, achievable goals.

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Background and approach

In sessions she focuses on real-life strategies that can be used between meetings. That might include ways to manage intense feelings, steps for reducing addictive behaviors, or planning for changes in daily routines. She adjusts the plan as progress is made.

Stephanie emphasizes collaboration. She partners with people to identify priorities and to try options that fit their life. No single method is assumed to work for everyone, so she adapts as needed.

Many people find taking the first step hard. Stephanie acknowledges that courage and helps make the next steps straightforward. Her goal is to help people find clearer breathing room and better ways to manage what feels unmanageable.

How therapeutic methods translate to online care

Stephanie uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people manage symptoms and regain control. One common approach focuses on building practical coping skills to reduce anxiety and manage day-to-day stress; it involves learning specific strategies to identify triggers and respond differently. Another approach emphasizes processing trauma and difficult emotions in small, supported steps so overwhelming memories and feelings feel more manageable over time.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Stephanie treats therapy as a collaborative process and will help figure out which techniques fit a person’s needs, goals, and preferences. She adjusts methods as progress is made and checks in regularly to see what feels helpful.

Online sessions use video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to offer flexibility. Video lets people use visual cues and have fuller conversation. Phone sessions can work when bandwidth is limited or when being off camera helps someone focus. Live chat and texting are useful for shorter check-ins, quick coping reminders, or when writing helps organize thoughts. These options make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life and to keep continuity of care when schedules change.
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Questions people ask

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She works with people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, coping with life changes, and feelings of guilt and shame.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is practical and respectful, with a focus on listening, setting clear goals, and using strategies that fit daily life.
What is her professional background?
She has 10 years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and behavioral concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in Virginia and practices there.
In which languages are sessions offered?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats does she use?
She works through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.
How do costs and billing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

What this therapist works with

Experience
10 years
Licensed
Virginia
Languages
English

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